Interview Series Volume 6Master Instructors Tenmagnet, Sinn, and Future on Identity Identity is not the job you do...it's who you are at the core. You're not your F'n khakis! Your hopes, dreams, ambitions, and future plans are what make up your identity. Who YOU are is more important to girls than your day job. If a girl asks you'"What do you do?" and you give her your resume' -she won't know anything about YOU. This is a question that will always come up, so be prepared. Talking about your boring job will only bore the both of you, so cut that right out. What's most important is that you're passionate about who you've chosen to be in this short life. Fight Club would be a prime example, it's about a guy who realizes that he has no identity and doesn't know what to do about it. His subconscious creates an identity to act out all the things he wants to do but was afraid of attempting for lack of self-confidence. I'm sure you know the story, but anyways, you're different and interested in working towards your goals. I've noticed that MM doesn't try to force the fact that they have some sort of magic pill to fix your love life, they tell you how to improve yourself and create your own magic. This CD is another important piece in your overall framework. It's going to help you display your value in an interesting way and make more intimate connections. The "flash game" has to end at some point and this is where most girls will make up their mind on how well they want to know you. Grounding your identity to theirs is just the icing on the cake. You shouldn't miss this one, especially if you have flake issues or trouble creating rapport. Not a lot to say about this CD, I'm sure most guys know how important the concept of identity is, as well as the knowing proper grounding. I got a huge amount of info out of this one and the conversation flowed smoothly, making it all simple and easy to listen to. It would have been great if it were even longer, but then again, I just can never get enough of this stuff, so maybe that's just me. For good measure, there's a couple of accomplishment intro's towards the end and it's nice to hear how that is done properly. -waxlrose Live Pickup Videos
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