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Short-Circuiting through Contraction
One of the two most common ways I see men shut down from the intense sensations that arise when relating with women is Contraction. By Contraction I mean you are holding tight somewhere in the body. By contracting you can … Continue reading
How To “Own Your Emotions” with Women… Without Being a Pussy
We as men, more than almost anything else, want to learn to create authentic attraction and connection with women. But what gets in the way of REAL connection, is what we call social masks. Y’know, this is the happy face … Continue reading
Got Roots? Inner Game vs Outer Game
Imagine that pickup, outer game, is like the leaves of the tree… what people experience on the surface. It’s extremely helpful for most men to learn the outer game skills (Doing). Sometimes you guys just need something to get started … Continue reading
How We Get Blown Out by Women
You are walking down the sidewalk when you see your ideal woman, total goddess, walking toward you. Now when you think about, it seems like it might be the most natural thing in the world to genuinely go over and … Continue reading
Have You Been a ‘Shark’?
I used to be a shark. Do you remember me? At the bars….the clubs… parties…at the festivals… Gliding through the crowd, scanning, scanning. No eye contact with the other guys, just a critical, objectifying, cold eyed gaze, looking for… Women. … Continue reading
How To Overcome Neediness With Women… Forever
I find that there is an obsession with APPEARANCES in the seduction community and men’s dating advice. You are supposed to make it look like you aren’t really interested in her, or you should learn to “say things in a … Continue reading
How Getting Teased Builds Success With Women
It’s Sunday of the Authentic Man Program Course. We’ve got 12 participants going through one of the most intense, transformational experiences of their lives and here is the leadership team on lunch break at our favorite Indian restaurant near our … Continue reading
Are You Taking a Hit Off the Validation Crack Pipe?
I have a girlfriend who is a hooker. No, not a prostitute. She has serious feminine charm and uses it to “hook” a guy’s attention. In fact, with just a glance, she can send a “zing” that has guys go … Continue reading