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How to Attract a Beautiful Woman
By: Ben Ezra Author of Modern World Dating: How to Meet & Date Women
We see her everywhere; on the streets, in the mall, at the office, on the TV, on the covers of magazines… and yet we are continually astounded by her physical beauty. She causes grown men to swoon and act like children when they are around her, and her presence is unmatched by anyone. Men around the world would get down on their knees for her (literally) on the “snap” of a finger, and most men do.
To the beautiful woman, finding a real man is rare. So, to attract a beautiful woman you must first become a real man!
Be Ready
Ever heard the saying, “an over-night success usually happens after a few years”? If you were not born as a “natural” with women, becoming truly successful will take time and effort; it will not happen over-night. I do not say this to discourage you, but to motivate you to begin taking action towards success now!
Before you can understand how a woman’s mind works, you must first understand how your own mind works. Become a master of your psychology and the success will follow.
Be “Yourself” (be real)
The most popular question men ask me about how to meet and date women is, “what should I do” (what should I say, etc.). The problem I have with this question is; most men are just looking for a magical pick-up line or “quick-fix”. There are many things you must learn before you can ask, “What should I do”? That will come last.
The question you should be asking is, “What kind of person should I become”?
I know so many people that say, “I just want a woman to fall in love with who I really am” and that’s great! But the fact of the matter is; 90% of guys in this world act like dumb-asses when it comes to interacting with women (meaning; they do and say all the wrong things). So if who you are is a “dumb-ass”, I wish you all the luck in the world in trying to attract women because you will really need it!
I am not saying that you should become someone else and act fake, but to simply improve yourself and become a more interesting person (add to what you already have).
Woman can sense when a man is being fake immediately, so you must change in a way that makes it a part of who you really are. Your personality and the way you carry yourself as a person will greatly outweigh your “looks” department when meeting and attracting women, so become the kind of interesting person that women dream of!
Be Different!
Woman, especially beautiful women, are approached and usually hit on by dozens of men per day. That’s how life is for attractive women…
Now, just put yourself in a beautiful woman’s shoes for a minute… Imagine you were getting hit on that often, in the same ways over and over again… Would you not get bored of it after a while? I mean, you might get and ego boost every now and then but that’s about it!
The truth of the matter is, women are SICK and TIRED of being approached in the same exact ways multiple times per day or night by different guys who just don’t get it!
Whenever they go out, they HOPE to bump into someone different… Someone interesting… Someone who makes their head turn… And thanks to information like this, that someone can very well be you!
So, walk to your own beat, and stop following the herd. Cause those who follow the herd end up getting slaughtered.
Learn new things, wear interesting clothes and accessories, walk slower and more confident than most people, set standards, and come up with interesting and different ways of approaching women…
Women will notice you much more when you become different in an interesting way.
Get Down to Business
The final step in becoming successful with women is knowing how and when to advance during an interaction.
In my book I talk about The 8 Essential Phases of Every Interaction with a Woman and how and when to advance to each of the next phases (transitions).
You might be great at getting women’s phone numbers, but horrible at getting any of them to meet you for a date… To be truly successful you must be a master at each of the 8 phases and always advance when the time is right.
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