Understanding

Real-world implications of the PUA paradigm. Deeper study of women, relationships, and helpful perspectives that will improve your pickup and general game.

The Metagame

For those of you who have been in the game for a while now, you will probably have developed your own style of play. Whether you are following one of the more mainstream methods, or have developed your own sense … Continue reading

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Got Roots? Inner Game vs Outer Game

Imagine that pickup, outer game, is like the leaves of the tree… what people experience on the surface. It’s extremely helpful for most men to learn the outer game skills (Doing). Sometimes you guys just need something to get started … Continue reading

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Attraction Switches

My concern lately has been the bigger picture in a PU. That, I think, is what should be focussed on once you can get rid of the training wheels of constantly scripted sarges and learning to be cool/charming/attractive. For a … Continue reading

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Why Intelligent Men Fail

I’ve been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now… and one “problem scenario” just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER… and OVERand OVER and OVER again……and it’s really amazes me.I’m going … Continue reading

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Power

Power is the biggest aphrodisiac of all time. This was true in the earliest days of the caveman period, true in Egypt, Greece and Rome, and it’s still true today. Women in particular are hugely attracted to power. In different … Continue reading

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Social Proof

Social proof is essentially a means to generate Pre-selection, and Propinquity. Pre-selection was a form of attraction that I feel was adequately outlined in a psychological test covered last year by Benedict Jones. The theory behind Pre-selection has been around … Continue reading

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Looking for the Holy Grail

There is a special phenomenon when a guy starts to learn about women for the first time. I call it “the grand search for the holy grail.” I have seen many guys who were unsuccessful with women for years of … Continue reading

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Being the Prize

I’ve got a question for ya… Do you know how far the average man gets with a woman? Not far at all. Let’s take a bar or a nightclub, for example. Many a man’s success at a bar is no … Continue reading

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The PUA’s Hierarchy of Needs

Adopted from Maslow’s Theories. Every guy in the community strives to be great with women. But not every guy strives to be great in other parts of his life. Some guys aren’t even decent in other parts. Growing from AFC … Continue reading

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How We Get Blown Out by Women

You are walking down the sidewalk when you see your ideal woman, total goddess, walking toward you. Now when you think about, it seems like it might be the most natural thing in the world to genuinely go over and … Continue reading

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