Understanding

Real-world implications of the PUA paradigm. Deeper study of women, relationships, and helpful perspectives that will improve your pickup and general game.

Principles of Attraction

What is attraction? What makes it work? Remember the days in school we used to watch the cute girls, the girls we spent lonely nights dreaming of, being with the bully’s and jerks of the school. Wondering why, why, why, they’d … Continue reading

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Why it’s cool to be a player and not cool to be a slut

For years I have had conversations with girls where they ask me why this double standard appears in society. They want to know why guys can sleep around and boast about it, but if women do the same they are … Continue reading

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Negative Compliance Momentum

So as we all know there is no 100% correct model to P/U. MM is about 85% and that is fucking amazing because it is intellectualizing dynamic real world situations. However with that said I have discovered another little piece … Continue reading

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Self Esteem

Self Esteem Is Critical To A Healthy Sexual Relationship After my nine year marriage ended in 1992, I was determined to find out what I had done wrong. Why did my marriage fail? I read every book about relationships that … Continue reading

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The Women You Always Wanted

Guys who have lower self confidence when it comes to women like to think that they don’t “deserve” to get the kind of women they want deeply inside. Well, if you belong to this group I have good news for … Continue reading

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Beating the Game

How to avoid taking your game into a dead end. THE PROCESS: Step 1) Guy is not having success with women. He is lonely and/or alternatively has just been heartbroken by former love. Step 2) Guy searches desperately for resources … Continue reading

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Light and Dark

The community is a forking path. And it can lead you into the light or the darkness. The choice is yours. Whenever I discuss the community with outsiders, the same questions always come up. And there is no clear-cut answer … Continue reading

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Why Most Pick Up Lines Don’t Work

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman and thought to himself, “Wow! She really works those breasts, bouncy bouncy.” Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation … Continue reading

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Value

We don’t only want entrance, but we want it free and we want to be bumped to the front of the line. Additional material on qualification:http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&grp=6&mn=1063788538100495 There exists many social SUBCOMMUNICATIONS that convey social value. -breaking rapport-neutral to rapport-trying to … Continue reading

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Attraction versus Value

There is no absolute and objective value. It is all relative. What is valuable to one girl is not valuable to the next. This is a long one, so here’s a rundown: 1. A clear distinction between, and balance of … Continue reading

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