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A PUA is a person that centres a lot of their time and effort on stopping, seducing and picking up ladies of all ages and types, so that he can have strong game.

Once he’s no stranger to with exactly how attraction works along with what ladies are attracted to in a man, his job is basically done. He can then confidently go out to a pub, club or perhaps even a coffee shop during the day and pickup a woman he likes the look of.

This is exactly what some of the best PUA bootcamps can provide you. The chance to step outside of your comfort zone, learn the skills to entice women and finally get laid occasionally, without counting on destiny or beer.

Precisely why a PUA bootcamp may be the greatest thing for you

If you’ve ever been out with a bunch of lads or with a couple of work friends, spotted a woman at the bar and thought to yourself… ” Man, I wish I had the confidence to talk to her”.

Or you ‘ve been walking down the block on your journey to the office and a cute woman has walked right near you, however you’ve realized that you have no game, so there’s no real point in attempting to talk to her because you don’t know what to say.

A live event is able to help you overcome this…

When you go to a PUA bootcamp, you will be asked to approach a quantity of girls over the course of a few days or evening. Coaches are contracted to help coach you during the course and tell you exactly where you failed, like knowledgeable wingman practically.

If you’re just an ordinary dude who wishes to have sex more, or maybe even locate that precious girl, a bootcamp could just be the greatest thing you could ever do for your game.

How much does a PUA bootcamp cost?

There are bunches of Pick Up Artist seminars available on the marketplace right now, one of the most prominent is from a company known as PUA Training, who are just one of the biggest seduction and dating companies out there.

You’d be getting prices around $600 to $2,500 based on the course duration, material discussed and tutor teaching on the day. That price range can come as a shock to you, but just imagine the skills you’re gonna get from it.

I tease them and give them a LITTLE BIT of kino to keep them coming back for more, but mostly I just game them verbally.

Then, when it comes time to extract, I throw out my arm for THEM to take it.

KEY:  Rather than grabbing a girls’ arm, just throw out yours for HER to take it.  If she’s at buying temperature, she’ll grab it like its a kid grabbing a candy-bar.

Notice that you can use stuff like high-5s as KINO-PING-TESTS.  If a girl is at high buying temperature and you “high-5” her, she’ll practically EXPLODE trying to high-5 you.  It will be like the most ridiculously enthusiastic high-5 of her life.

The same goes for just placing your hands out PALMS UP, and then waiting for her to put her hands on yours.

So for the punishment/reward stuff, rather than grabbing HER, I just throw out my hands palms up, and she grabs THEM.  Then I squeeze, and she squeezes back all GIDDY AS HELL.  Then I let go, or decide to hold on, depending on her state.

In terms of powerful bodylanguage and LEADING, you game her verbally, get her totally emotionally aroused, and then throw out an OPPORTUNITY for her to kino you.  It’s just like you initiating kino, but she’s COMFORTABLE with this approach.

She will LOVE this.

It conveys that you won’t make her uncomfortable at any point, and that you won’t be like 99% of all other guys who are pushy and break her state by escalating without testing the waters first.

Girls LOVE sex, but they want to feel comfortable.

This is one of the major reasons for flaking.  Guys don’t “get” buying temperature and escalation.  So a girl kisses a guy in a club, but doesn’t want to meet up with him again the next day because she knows that he’ll LOGICALLY take the same physical-liberties with her that he did the night before.  Like, she LIKES the guy, but she feels worried that he’ll think that because they made-out on the dance floor that he’ll try to make out with her the second he sees her, without escalating her emotional arousal first.

So in terms of leading, just game, wait for the signal of buying temperature (maybe her qualifying herself, often other shit also), and then give a KINO-OP to her.

At the same time, this is in CONTRAST to “caveman as a de-clogger”.  I may be planning to pull a girl from the club, and I jut out my arm for her to take but she doesn’t do it.

What do I do?  Either I re-game a bit (if I think that’s necessary), or I recognize it as something that won’t be overcome with verbal game, and I go CAVEMAN DRAG STYLE.

MANY girls NEED to be cavemanned out of a club.  They NEED this logical de-clogging.

Still, primary modus operandi is game her, provide kino opportunity for her, and then lead and escalate.

GAME = social value, emotionally arouse, pass tests, trust, escalate, phase shift to sexual, close.

Let me think of some examples from the top of my head.

AT A BAR:

GUY1:  Sees girls up at the bar.  He goes up and orders a drink.  He sits there and looks over at them once or twice.  Then he opens.

GUY2:  Sees girls up at the bar.  Goes up on a good angle, doesn’t lean in or face them too much, and opens.  He FALSE-TIME CONSTRAINTS and sits down, and continues the pickup.  In the CONTINGENCY that there is no seat available, he KNOWS he can’t just stand there, so he kino-pings the hot girl with his hand (this is a trick, they NEVER decline a kino-ping if you’re doing well), and gets her to reach out his hand, then pulls her from her chair and sits on it and laughs at her playfully.  He lets her sit on his lap AFTER she qualifies herself to him.

AT THE COUCHES OR TABLE:

GUY1:  Walks around thinking what to say.  He leans down for the girls to hear him, and stands there talking in an uncomfortable position.

GUY2:  Walks up sideways like he’s about to leave, opens.  He then either ways for THEM to ask HIM a question, and THEN sits down as if it was an invitation, OR he does a FALSE-TIME-CONSTRAINT, sits and continues gaming.

Notice that in ALL CASES, the FALSE TIME CONSTRAINT is what allows you to DISARM the emotion of “is he going to stay forever”, and also gets them thinking of ways to make you STAY.

The key to powerful bodylanguage, IMO, not hesitating, and not being afraid to impose on people’s personal space, as long as its in a tactful NON-BOLD way. (ie: not in a way that you’re obviously TRYING too hard to be alpha, whe you’re not).  GIRLS DETECT PRE-MEDITATED APPROACHES A MILE AWAY. AVOID THIS B JUST LOOKING SPONTANEOUS, AND FALSE-TIME-CONTRAINING. USE MYSTERY’S 3-SECOND RULE.

GETTING HER TO INITIATE KINO:

Girls LOVE seducing guys, and if you guys haven’t realized it yet, MOST sex that occurs is initiated by GIRLS.

Think back to all your AFC relationships.  Usually the girl got interested in you, and then eventually after fumbling for long enough you went out and things went from there.

Likewise in a club, the goodlooking guys roll in the club, girls giggle and get hyper around them, and it goes from there.

SEDUCTION IS MORE COMMONLY DONE BY WOMEN.

This is because they are more COMFORTABLE with that.

So the key is to leave yourself out as BAIT, and get them to SEDUCE YOU.  That doesn’t mean don’t lead.  What it means is to ALTERNATE between getting her to game you as much as possible, and then leading her at times where its needed. Remember when you were growing up and watched Hollywood movies where the guy would give the girl endless flowers and shit and that would work? Well, like all other conventional advice, it doesn’t. You want the women to be worrying about how they are going to seduce YOU.

This goes back to why I first said that you have to go “rapport” (now I call it comfort building) after you go C&F.

If you go pure C&F, the chick will flake on you if you don’t lay her same night.  The reason is that she is not COMFORTABLE hanging with you for a day2 if you went pure C&F.  Why?  It’s all related to BUYING TEMPERATURE.  Girls feel uncomfortable meeting again, because they’re scared that you’ll take the same liberties with them when their volume knob was up, but now they’ve come out of state and its down, but 99% of guys don’t understand that they need to turn it back up before they can get back to where they were at the initial venue.  Girls will even show up for get-togethers with guys they aren’t THAT attracted to, just because they’re SOCIAL.  The main cause of flaking for PUAs is DISCOMFORT.

This is because guy’s attraction mechanism is like a light switch – on or off – binary – 0 or 1.  For girls its like a VOLUME KNOB.  It goes up slowly, and they’ll PERMIT more escalation as the volume knob goes up.

I use the last paragraph as a ROUTINE, except that I SWITCH the guys and girls part, and say that I need “comfort and trust and connection before I can concede to a girl that I’m attracted to, and for my friends to approve also, so please slow down and be patient or I’m going to go dance with my wingman”…  This is a GREAT routine IMO, because it shows in a humorous way that you understand girls and their attraction mechanisms and that I won’t violate them by escalating too quickly so she can feel free to get all emotional since I won’t abuse of it  -> ummmm yeah..

I really like the concept of basically just explaining buying temperature and girlcode to girls as a routine, but in a funny way, because they enjoy it and it tells them things about themselves.  But most importantly, it lets them know that you understand women, and that you’re “in the know

As IJJJJI recently posted (THANKS for this because guys keep emailing me about this and I hadn’t thought of a such a good way to describe it), comfort building is not making the rest of the pickup BORING.  It’s just ADDING A DIMENSION, which in this case is comfort.  Yes, you drop the C&F stuff where you won’t give her your real name or where you’re shit testing the fuck out of her, but you don’t drop the charge of the interaction.  You’re still cocky and you’re still funny, you’re just not being a fucking dick who would be incongruent if he were to want her # and to meet up again.  And of course you’re adding the DIMENSION of comfort, so that she can logically backwards rationalize the feelings that she has as a result of your C&F.

Kissing IS comfort building because the FOCUS of comfort building is you want the girl to feel comfortable seeing you again.  If you’ve had physical contact, then the girl understands that you have PHYSICAL COMPATIBILITY, so she doesn’t have to feel nervous about the first kiss when she meets again.  Basically girls flake most often NOT because they aren’t attracted enough, but because they just don’t want the emotion of discomfort.

If you’ve ever #closed a superhottie who you didn’t have the best rapport with, and felt nervous to call her, THIS is the feeling that I’m talking about.  Except that GIRLS won’t actually push through it, because they follow their emotions whereas guys are more inclined to push through fear to get to the goalline.

So upping kino is great, but only in a way where its NON-PLAYER KINO.

***NON-PLAYER-KINO***

I don’t know/care if thats a good term (probably not), but I just want to focus on it to distinguish fool’s mate “get her horny enough to leave” kino, that the “club makeout guys” use, and the kino that actual cool trustworthy classy potential boyfriend type guys use.

I don’t know fully how to explain the difference in text, but just using common sense.

So the program is if she does something good, you escalate kino.  For example, hold her hands.  See if she’s comfortable.  KEEP RE-INITIATING this until she’s comfortable.

Like keep trying to get her comfortable with one level, then disengage, then re-engage a level higher.  Get her comfortable with that, and continue.

Use freeze-outs to punish for unwillingness to get with the program.  That means FAKING LOCKUP.  Then when she re-initiates, try again.  Keep doing this progressively all the way to the lay, also using full takeaways and trying again later as a plan-B.

Anyway, alot of rambly content here, but hopefully something of use can be derived from it.

Kino escalation is something that’s key to pickups.  As noted in the past, I don’t like pushy kino, because girls lockup as a result and it telegraphs too much interest.

Rather, I use it as a reward, which I think is so important.

In the past, I’ve used no kino whatsoever, and relied on verbal gaming to get them to kino ME, and then reciprocated as a reward for things they did.  This got them in a frame where they were chasing me.  Like a little doggie left home alone, who has to push the “feed me” button.  Pavlovian conditioning.

After hanging out with Commander Zap in London, he mentioned to me “I’d be in kino by now”.  I thought I’d give it a try and post back some results.

What I’ve been doing is using what girls would find to be FUN KINO, in order to escalate.

So for example, I’ll put out my hands palms up, and then pull her in.  I always pull HER in, rather than invade her personal space (props Mys).  I also never use invasive kino, like placing my fingers in her line of sight which will make her flinch.  If my hands go into her facial area, I backup with one foot so that it gives the illusion of comfort.

My buddy always says you can always stroke the rabbit to calm it before you snap its neck..

“FUN kino” is like kino that she’ll like, but can justify to herself aren’t sexual even though they are.  She’ll THINK they’re not, until its too late.

So anyway, my favourite types of “fun kino” are like (most of these I learned from CHICKS):

• getting her to scratch your back, and then scratch hers.  So like you hug and then go “ummm, baby scratch my back for a sec” and then scratch hers also.
• put your fingers at the back of her wasteline, and then run them up with walking fingers HARD against her back, all the way up to her neck and then grab her traps (muscles connecting her neck to her shoulders) and massage them down (this is honestly one of my best moves, so if you don’t get it post because I use this non-stop)
• hand massaging
• biting (as a funny joke)
• hair pulling at the back and pull her neck back and do a joke bite.
• hair stroking, or head massaging
• encorporate mini-cold-reads into a massage like “hey this is tense.. this means that you’re x-mini-cold-read”, or doing actual REAL cold reads off of things you’re doing to her physically.
• if she’s sitting on a chair, sit on the floor facing her and hug her knees and rest your head on her lap.  If isolated, you could later choose to pull her down and lock legs around eachothers waists.
• if sitting, get her to lean back against you between your legs in a V-shape (so she’s in between the V).  This gives you massive maneuvrability to breath into her ears or rub your nose on her neck or play with her hair or even braid it or something.

***IN ALL CASES, BE THE ONE TO END IT FIRST***

***CONTINUALLY SHOW WILLINGNESS TO DISCONTINUE AND RE-INITIATE OR BAIT HER TO RE-INITIATE SHORTLY AFTER***

That will make her take you seriously, since she was getting gradual rewards, rather than you obviously TRYING TO SEDUCE HER.  Girls can always tell when you’re trying to seduce them, rather than just chilling and enjoying the interaction and seeing where it goes in a natural/genuine way.

When I go around the club high-fiving chicks, the ones who want me will ALWAYS try to clasp my hand and keep me there. I have literally gone up to a chick, high-fived her, and when she clasped my hand I started tonguing her down (before I’ve even said one word to her). This has happened a few times now.

If I caveman a chick, she’ll tickle me back and shit like that.  I pulled a go-go dancer from Guvernment one night with Twentysix, Papa, and No9, just by tickling this chick (It was too loud to talk, so I said “fuck this!” and just started going caveman on every chick that passed me, until I pulled).

She tickled back, and knowing that the kino test had been POSITIVE, I just literally DRAGGED her out of the club, barely haven spoken a word to her.

Literally, I tickled and DRAGGED her from the club.  Her friends weren’t there obviously (massive warehouse club).  She loved it.  Point is though, how did I know I could get away with it?  Or the insta-tongue-downs?  Just by KINO TESTS.

When I do kino opener, sometimes I’ll roll up on girls and ask a quick question, then say “you’re my new best friend” and wrap my arms around her. If she’s digging me she’ll almost always wrap her arm back around me, even if she’s in shock for a second and has to do it after when its not really timed properly..

Chicks will also do weird things, like if you hold her hands, and turn around and drop your hands, she’ll keep her hands RIGHT THERE in the hopes that you’ll re-initiate the kino.

Have you ever been in tightly packed car beside a chick, and she gets out for a sec, but you stay PERFECTLY STILL in hopes that she’ll come back to that position?  Or maybe you had your leg against hers in a lecture class, and she got up to go to the washroom for a minute.  You kept your leg right there in the hopes that it would go back in place.. (never does either dammit!)

This is the kind of stuff I’m talking about.

Another good test is to clasp hands mercy fight style, and then lower them waist level and see if she keeps it going. Or butting heads softly/gently, and see if she leans in or not.

***A really interesting thing that I’ve also noticed is girls UNWILLINGNESS to displace themselves physically in ANY WAY WHATSOEVER until they are into you (usually attraction, but sometimes also with deep rapport).

So basically, you may notice stuff like if you try to do the spin-maneuvre on a chick who thinks badly of you, she’ll refuse to spin.  If you say to a chick “your arms are crossed. You look uptight”, and she isn’t attracted yet, she’ll REFUSE to uncross them.. Literally, she’ll keep saying “I’m cold” and she won’t uncross them for ANYTHING.  Same thing when you suggest moving venues.  If they don’t like you, it will NOT happen.  Chicks just won’t displace themselves for guys they don’t like.

If you try to make a physical move too early in the sarge, you have fucked up the sequence, and the sarge often ends.

HOWEVER, sometimes girls will mumble shit like “not yet”, or they might decline a #close or something, but STILL keep flirting and talking to you.  That seems to be a subconscious way of saying “I’m not wet enough yet, but if you keep sarging me I may be there soon”.

1-      You try a brand new routine or opener.  It falls flat.  Then you TIGHTEN it by using it on TWENTY different girls.  It tightens and tightens, until it is TIGHT.  Now you have a tight routine to use in a sarge.  To get the desired reaction from a routine typically takes me between five and thirty botched sarges (now that I’m better, I can afford fuckups and still hold the sarge, but in the past I’d typically lose it).  Then after x-number of lost sarges, the routine is now tight.

2-      The routines fall FLAT.  You’ve used it SO MANY TIMES that you literally CAN’T STAND THE SOUND OF YOUR OWN VOICE USING THE ROUTINE, and you feel like an idiot using it.  You get sick of the same stupid assed responses, and don’t look enthusiastic by them anymore.  You come off incongruent or fake or whatever, and your routine fucks up your sarges.

3-      You DROP the routine, and you CHANGE back to OLD routines that you haven’t used for a few months, and then all of a sudden they are working AWESOME.  Better than even when you had originally used them, because you have both the mastered DELIVERY and the renewed ENTHUSIASM.  You use these until you begin to find them boring again, and then you revert BACK to the routines you DROPPED.

5-20 uses:  shit

20-300 uses:  very tight

300+ uses:  goes to crap, due to utter lack of enthusiasm

SWITCH TO OLD ROUTINES:

300-600: very tight

600+: goes to crap

SWITCH BACK TO ROUTINES YOU DROPPED:

300-600: very tight

600+: you’re sick of them again

SWITCH BACK ROUTINES YET AGAIN:

900-1100: very tight again

1100+:  crap again

etc etc etc etc etc………

Also, you learn NEW routines that are posted HERE, and then sometimes just drop going back to your old ones.  But if you don’t have enough of a new stock that you’re ENTHUSIASTIC for, you just go back to old ones and they’re AS GOOD AS NEW.

KEY here is that when you go back to old material that you thought sucked and your new shit was better, you find that the old stuff WAS good, since you now have a RENEWED ENTHUSIASM for it.

And yes, for keyboard jockeys this will all seem very weird.  “Holy shit, how many sarges does this guy do?”

For guys in field, this should be a very recognizable phenomenon that they’ve experienced. I think what this shows is the importance of delivery, rather than the actual content of the routines. This is why the first few times you do it are shit, because you haven’t got down how to say it, then you get bored and lose enthusiasm so it’s shit again. This is why naturals can do it without routines: because they make whatever they say sound interesting

I can tell a girl “I’m running a pickup workshop.  This is my student.  Student-X, I’m going to make out with this girl within 3 minutes.  She’s locked up right now, as you can see by x,y,z.  Give me 3 minutes.  Then I’ll blow her off, and go tongue down a few more girls, to show you how its done.”

The girl will say “WTF did you just say? Are you kidding me?”

I’ll reply “hahhaa, I was just kidding.. hey get this (routine, mini-cold-read, future-adventures-projections, C&F-misinterpretations, etc etc).  Start doing playful pushaways, get her pushing towards me all close, triangular gazing and then push away, she comes back, and TONGUEDOWN.  Or I say “Student-X, watch how she’s touching me when I make her emotional, to try to get me to touch her back so that she can displace the endorphins I’m shooting into her, and bring herself out of state.  I’ll even tell her to stop touching me, and she’ll do it more and more.  She won’t be able to stop herself, its reflex.”  Again, RIGHT to the chick.  She’s like “Dude, WTF did you say”, and I’m like “Hey, pay attention.  I said I want to adopt you.. You’re going to be my new little.. OMG  you’re so cute, I’m going to pack you in my suitcase and wrap you up in bubble wrap, so you’ll be all squishy and cuddling, and I’m going to bring you back to Los Angeles with me. We’re going to go shopping, and I’ll have you on my arm like this, and EVERY GIRL IN THE PLACE will be JEALOUS of you..”  She’s like “OMG that’s so awesome!  I love you so much! blah blah” and starts touching me instantly.  I say “Hey, you’re my little sister.. Hands off the merchandise, that’s 30 bucks reduced rates for little sisters”, and she touches me more and more.

Then I laugh at her and stop the pickup and blatantly remind her that I just told her what I was about to do it.  She’s like “AAAAAAAAH!! WTF ARE YOU DOING TO ME???”

It’s all frame setting.  You can PLOW girls’ frames so easily. Not talking is another way to do this.

You just IGNORE what she said, and then its “Follow the shiny thing girls.. Look, its a shiny thing!.. Follow it!”  She instantly falls out of her frame and into yours.  It all makes sense, because her emotions are saying “This is good”. Her logic is DISENGAGED enough to ignore what’s previously given her a bad emotion, in exchange for the more pleasant one (or in reality, to be more specific, the new attachment that you’ve given the emotion, since really love and hate are similar chemical reactions, but she tags it differently)

Often, in deep comfort building, I’ll have girls on my lap or leaning back on me or in close, and they’ll say some shit like “You’re too good at this.. You do this to girls all the time, don’t you?”

I just don’t answer.  I look at them, and don’t answer.  Then I ease my forehead to her head, and she reciprocates, and tonguedown. Boom, shit test passed. As you said, you don’t even have to answer.  You can IGNORE a shit-test, and if your frame is stronger, she’ll forget that she even said it.

The PUA just pretends the HB didn’t shit test him, doesn’t say anything / do anything. This is nice, because it is EASY to do. IMHO I passed a lot of shit tests in my first year of PU, just because I did this

Level 4: Skillful Shit Test Passing

Result: HB gets more attracted and Sarge PROGRESSES

Result:  She is unable to shut your game down, and use logic to put the breaks on her state of emotional arousal (which she tends to do just prior to hitting a higher buying temperature).

Second sarge, I’ll try it at y-buying-temperature.

Third, another one.

I try it early, I try it late.  I see after several sarges how soon and how late I can run it.  Where is it ideally situated. This is not a TIME variation, because it can take different girls different amounts of time to reach a buying temperature. By doing this, I am reducing fielding time drastically.  I get the same level of intuition on a peice of material that would take most guys months to get, because I’m consciously testing it (aka “ranging” it).

How do I recognize something subtle like buying temperature level, though? There’s no way to readily verbally describe it.  There is only…….FIELD EXPERIENCE. This is why I’m able to venue change girls so rapidly, remove them from alphamales, or extract them from their groups.  I can  recogonize when they are at that level instantly, because I RANGED those acts, so I know immediately the second that they are ready.

Like an oven timer going off….. “bing”

E.g. HB: “you are lying to me”

AFC: “no, I’m not… I wouldn’t lie to you.. why am I lying to you?” (notice that he accepts frame at end)

Level 1: Insecure Reaction

Result: HB senses insecurity and suspects you are Beta, possible Eject, or you will have to work to make up for it

Yes and not only that, but more importantly (IME) is that she shut down your game by forcing you into a logical frame instead of an emotional one.

GAME = stimulating a girls emotions, thus disengaging logic, thus breaking dow her ability to stop you from escalating.

LOGIC = Anti-Game, thus she comes out of state

DEFENDING YOURSELF = Logic

Level 2: Overly Anti-supplicative Reaction

Result: HB Senses insecurity, suspects you are Beta or worse Psycho, possible Eject

Yes I noticed that also. Girls fear betas and feel uncomfortable around them not because they are of lower status necessarily, but also because they know that they take the interaction TOO SERIOUSLY. Like, they’ll go home and think about it and take it the wrong way and misinterpret everything to have deeper significance. Girls are comfortable around alphas generally because they know that when you say “You’re my new GF” its FUN, and that you’ll forget about her 5 minutes later if nothing comes of it, anyway.

Level 3: NO Reaction – Result:

HB senses indifference, Alpha quality, has NO impact on sarge

Again, to me its not exclusively about being alpha.  It’s that indifference doesn’t give her the opportunity to shut your game down with logic. However it still IS about being alpha, in the sense that its about social value.  Act like someone of social value (generally an “alpha” anyway), and you’ll subcommunicate/telegraph that you were worth seeing, and that she made a mistake by blowing you off. I really like not answering girls (I do this ALL THE TIME) and ignoring what they say, and generally talking over them.