I wasn’t a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant.
I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and “true love conquers all” etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, “for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer” etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are “liberated” (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today’s society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.
I’d like to point out that I am not a misogynist…I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.
I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be – most women have issues.) But that’s not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn’t flake, I WILL fuck her that next day.
Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn’t change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won’t feel guilty when I fuck her because now it’s “my fault.” Sometimes she hides it from me until after I’ve fucked her, then she admits it. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she’s on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most – loyalty – is just not there with women. Women don’t think in terms of honor, women don’t say “word is bond;” women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That’s why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.
I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I’m maybe a 7. I don’t work out (though I’m not fat or anything.) In fact I didn’t have any success with women until I was in my early 20′s. That’s when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid… I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn’t get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I’m in my early 30′s now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn’t have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in social situations… in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone’s wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn’t know they had a man until after I fucked them.
Look, I’m not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I’m just saying, I’ve spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there’s really no going back. I didn’t want to believe these things… but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can’t hate the dog for doing what’s in its nature. You can’t trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal… but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents…but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.
Here’s an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman’s having sex, doesn’t that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn’t men be having just as much sex as women? NO…because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it’s because they “got lucky.” But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! It’s evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man…so the top man fucks lots of women. That’s right – the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.
You might say, “But…but…I’m so nice! I’m a nice guy!” Guess what? That’s like a fat chick saying, “But I’m so smart!” As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!
I’m going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you’re doing, and I’m on to your game!)
* Don’t be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman’s worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don’t view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won’t find out.)
* Don’t get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It’s ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down…just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.
* Don’t let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It’s just like dancing – women hate a man who can’t lead.
* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them – like sex. (And they’re right.) It’s important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don’t believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second.
* DON’T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don’t show off. Don’t talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.
* Don’t ignore her friends. A woman values her friend’s opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)
* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don’t just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you…playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that “I can’t believe you just said that” look, do NOT back down, do not say “Oh I’m just kidding” or anything like that.
* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don’t take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That’s right…women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It’s crazy but that’s how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she’s saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.
* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you’ve kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don’t make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I’m shy or insecure about something. I know it’s fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.
* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don’t like to feel like you are with them only because you can’t do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.
* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.
* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn’t have to feel like it was “her fault.” Make it YOUR fault. Make it “just happen.” She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don’t get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.
* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not… because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)… because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically ‘impart’ to the chick!
* One more thing…many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don’t listen to them, THEY DON’T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.
If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass – because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That’s why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them – because those are the men that they gravitate to.
Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30′s? That’s what beta males are for! Heh)
Hey, don’t blame me – I didn’t make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do 
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This is my personal seduction affirmation list. It’s mostly to help me be successful with women but also has a lot to do with having self-esteem, confidence and a healthy psychological state of being. Feel free to use it and share it with others. It took me a long time to build this list and I have found it extremely helpful. Using these affirmations has forever changed my life and I’m sure it will change yours too!
Everything in your life has to do with your psychological state of being. You are your thoughts and your thoughts are you. Change your mind and you change the world. Your external reality is nothing more than a reflection of your internal reality. Do not look out there, look within. Work on your inner self and inner world first then everything else will change for the better.
Perception is Reality. How you perceive the exterior world determines what your experience of it will be. These affirmations may seem outrageous because they are. Embrace them absolutely and completely, trust me on this one! The human mind cannot tell the difference between what is real and imagined. Being “delusional” is how you get good at life.
Beliefs of Naturals – My Reality
Read 3 times before bed and in the morning(do it for a for month) Record in the second person. Play recording on a loop continuously at a low volume(whisper). Play recording during the day and at night while sleeping.
1. Being with me is the best possible choice for any woman.
2. Women love men and especially love me.
3. I love life!
4. I am God. I am Perfect. This is my universe!
5. I am fearless, courageous and bold!!!
6. I read incredibly fast!
7. Women love sex and want sex from me.
8. My intelligence, creativity and potential is infinite!
9. I am exceptionally social and outgoing.
10. I am completely focused, organised and use my time with the utmost efficiency.
11. Women are nurtures and pleaser’s who want to nurture and please me.
12. I am an infinitely self-assured, confident, sexual and dominant male.
13. Everyday in every way I am better and better!!!
14. I have complete control over my life, mind and psychological state of being.
15. I am the greatest genius this world has ever seen.
16. I heal instantly!
17. I am successful, confident and achieve my goals. I exude infinite sex, power, confidence, happiness and self-love all the time.
18. I can be, do and have anything I want to in this world, my possibilities are endless!!!
19. I love myself! I am complete, fulfilled and completely happy!!!
20. I am growing more beautiful and luminous day by day.
21. Everybody loves me and all women want me! I make friends easily.
23. I access all the knowledge in the universe.
25. I am completely irresistible to women!
26. Regardless of how she is reacting to me she is getting aroused.
27. I see the underlying truth in all things.
28. I am an adventurer! I travel the world!
29. Regardless of how she is reacting to me I am the prize she is trying to win over!
30. I am a multi-millionaire and master seducer!
31. I love what I do and am richly rewarded, creatively and financially.
32. I have a perfect photographic memory! I recall everything easily.
33. Since she wants to have sex with me, the power is in my court to decide whether she lives up to my standards and expectations. I get to decide if we have sex.
34. I create my own reality!
35. Today I love my body fully, deeply and joyfully.
37. Today I open my mind to the endless opportunities surrounding me.
38. Prosperity surrounds me, prosperity fills me, prosperity flows to me and through me.
39. I have sex with super hot, confident, loving, caring and intelligent women with genius IQ’s all the time!
40. I think positively every day, all the time.
41. I attract amazing people.
43. My body is now trained to burn fat and build muscle day by day.
44. I have a six pack of abdominal muscles.
46. I am filled with the light of love, peace, happiness, power, success and joy every day, all the time.
47. I am aggressive, direct and powerful with the women I desire. I radiate a confidence, self-control and charm that women find irresistibly attractive.
48. My mind is focused on what I desire and I go for it congruently and powerfully.
49. I take immediate advantage of my opportunities with women. I swiftly establish incredible rapport, gather the information I need, then close with aggression, power and finesse.
50. I radiate a natural, easy self-acceptance that women find irresistibly attractive.
51. I am mastering the responses, attitudes, behaviours, insights and timing that bring me irresistible power with the women I desire.
52. I am now approaching women that I am attracted to.
53. I am able to pick up and attract any women I desire.
54. I am a strong, powerful, aggressive, dominant, alpha male, leader and conqueror!!!
55. I am smooth, charming, interesting and fascinating!!!
56. I have a perfectly sculptured muscle ripped body.
57. I am super hot and sexy, all women want me!
58. Abundance is my natural state of being!
59. Money comes to me easily and continuously from multiple sources!
61. My IQ and intelligence increases daily rapidly!!!
62. I have clear beautiful skin!
63. I have lucid dreams and recall all my dreams with complete clarity!
65. All things are now working together for good in my life.
67. I rule the world! I am brilliant and perfect in every possible way!
68. I succeed in everything I do!
69. I have sex with one thousand super hot women!
70. I am now enjoying everything I do and feel happy just being alive.
71. Sex with super hot women comes to me easily and effortlessly.
72. All things are now working together for good in my life.
73. I have the infinite creative power of God within me.
74. I am a Bad Boy, Player, Natural and Ladies Man!
75. I am a Sexy Beast! Everywhere I go women want to fuck me!
76. I have sex with supermodels daily.
77. Supermodels have an incredible desire to fuck me wherever I go!
78. I attract whatever I desire.
79. I am the most desirable man in the world. I am God’s gift to women.
80. Supermodels and incredibly hot women proactively, persistently and aggressively seek me out to fuck me.
81. Beautiful women are extremely persistent with me for sex.
82. What I believe is reality. Women experience me as extremely intoxicating, exciting and addictive.
83. I am a catch and out of her league, any woman that’s with me is very fortunate to have my attention.
84. Beautiful women are extremely attracted to me on a deeply subconscious level.
85. Women are perverted creatures who are always trying to fuck me.
86. Every morning I wake up in bed with twenty supermodels.
Attitude of the The Prize
You got to be a bit self-centered, a jerk and an asshole. The difference between nice guys and Alpha males: Nice guys place a woman on a pedestal, Alpha males place themselves on a pedestal. Just be Alpha and dominant. Chicks dig 50 Cent not Steve Urkel. Alpha males love themselves more than they ever could any woman on this planet. Always remember that you are more important than any woman on this planet regardless of how physically attractive she may be. You have high value and she has very low value. You are the Prize she is trying to win over. Perceive the world the same way Brad Pitt does, every high valued quality woman wants you but they’re just not good enough. Every woman on the planet wants you so why settle for the first thing that comes along? Your attitude should be:
“I am a catch.”
“I am out of your league.”
When I became self-centered, that’s how I got good with women. Always talk down to hot women!
Behave around hot women and talk to them as though they have very low value. Perceive her as a fat ugly chick. Talk to her and carry yourself around her the same way you would to a fat ugly chick. You are a catch, she should be trying to win over your approval!
Know that there are only ever two steps to follow to figure out anything in life.
1. Ask yourself “What works?”
2. Become that!
Totally agree with you, i just read this and most of what you said is what I thought, i use to be that sweet nice guy too, then I keep getting fuck over. Then I started being a player, took me awhile to get the hang out it, but after rejection after rejection I got better at my game.
whoever wrote this is a fucking turd and a parasite on society.
You can say what you want but the day you give your balls to a woman is the day you put a noose around your own neck. Dont be naive…men and women are different. You certainly must have noticed that. They “love” differently if you will. Attraction is an old type of software…and it turns on by different means…that you decide. You decide what the signals are…and the day you find out shes fucked someone else because youre a “nice” guy is the day your world will fall apart.
So…some advice…dont trust a woman like shes a man…shes not. Gender equality is a lie when it comes to what standards a woman will hold for herself compared to a man. Get real buddy!
Time to man up, grow some balls and be a real man…like you hear women asking for.
Ha ha ha, as if men didn’t cheat on women as well! Or do you prefer that?
I wasnt addressing whether men cheat on women or not…some do, some dont….I didnt….and I wont screw a married woman. She doesnt deserve to have me validate her `worth`….excuse the sacrasm. As far as what I prefer…you might want to consider what betrayal feels like…if you havent experienced it already I can tell you if youre really interested in the answer.
Truth be told…2 million years of genetic memory arent considerate to political correctness or the social programming thats been layed on top of it…period.
If you still dont believe that…turn on the news and see for yourself…open your eyes and see firsthand what the nature of humanity is…and maybe consider why the divorce rate is well upwards of 50%. Check out the websites that are for married women looking for “fun” or to be “naughty”….and then give your head a shake. Women are predisposed to breed from a biological prespective…an egg every month makes my point. They “want” to find a mate…someone “nice”…aka a fish to leech from. The real problem arises when theres no more “spark”. So they fuck some “unvailable” alpha male because the nice guy isnt doing it for them any longer…and at some point will say that theres no attraction any longer. Saying its not like that is the biggest bullsh*t story around.
Where the hell are are the big carnivores looking to lunch on a weak defenseless snack when a guy needs one lol. Gone are the days when safety and protection held a female in her place and she was thankful for it and the male who provided it. With laws like no fault divorce, common law rights, and child support payments, women can be stupid and truely female…and survive and still meet the need to breed and continue the cycle of being the real parasites….so much for a progressive society. The term `bitches`didnt just happen by accident.
“whoever wrote this is a fucking turd and a parasite on society.”
Hahah, parasite you say, well I hope you wont feel that way about your wife, when you find out she cheated on you with 22 old hot guy.
After all those years you loved her, invest in her and in your future she did that.
Who is parasite here, he or her?
Just want to say that you are absolutely right.
Bear with me, because this shit is to a point where i feel dusted and disgusted.
I was a 7, just like you, still am, and probably keep on being. Growing up as an immigrant from an eastern european country was tough for me, but somewhere along the lines during the age of 12 and 14 I began to comprehend how sheepish american society is and stopped giving a fuck about what political correctness was. I lost my virginity at age 13 to a 15 year old broad, who coincidentally was at the time my gf’s best friend. The gf had a bad reputation, but for some reason wouldnt fuck me. As soon as I fucked her best friend and lost my v-card – guess what? A week later I fucked the gf who dumped me. 2 older hot girls from high school fucking some mediocre looking guy in middle school was a spark to my realization of how bullshit women’s opinions were even when they are prepubescent. After that, I began to grasp the reality (or pseudo spoon fed reality) and taking advantage of it by being counter productive. Being not that smart, I started applying the same ideology to school. Starting out with a 1.4 gpa in early HS, I started manipulating my teachers, while putting in mediocre work ethic, which eventually landed me a high gpa and got me accepted to UCLA.
Between those years in high school, I learned a whole fucking lot about the feminist dominated world. I was fucking girls from my HS and surrounding HS’s while maintaining a great gpa just by applying the same practical advice that you are giving. Having a teacher like you just because you are funny, extreme, a great conversationalist equals to a better grade than bu doing HW or passing all your tests. Old women teachers were just little girls trapped inside of depreciated and withered bodies.
I fucked about 80 girls, and got head only from about 30 (the prudes who wouldn’t put out all the way or were too busy being guilt ridden because they had bf’s)
Well at 22, I’m 25 now, I met a great 18 year old girl who I had soooooo much in common with that I started dating her and fell head over heals. Hears the weird thing- I was fucking 9′s and 10′s all my life, yet this girl was a 6 maybe a drunk 7. Why? Because I believed that this girl is the one for me.
Over a span of a 3 year relationship, I started completely losing it. I started a crappy job after graduating just because SHE wanted to live in a nice spacious place in Beverly Hills with 2 bedrooms. I stopped keeping contact with my female friends because SHE thought they were sluts and hitting on me. I stopped keeping contact with my guy friends because SHE thought they were a bad influence on me. I stopped living a fun life because SHE thought i was living too fast.
I became a fucking cubicle rat. I would drunkenly tell my co workers stories about my past conquests and they wouldn’t believe me. I HAD NOTHING TO SHOW FOR IT. I came off as a liar to them. My excuse to make myself feel better was “Oh well, as long as I got my baby with me, thats all that matters”
Fast forward to now- all my hard earned money was spent on keeping an expensive apartment and lavish gifts that when I got sick of my job, I barely had, and still have, NO MONEY to pay off my school loans. We moved into a cheaper place, kind of ghetto actually. I am unemployed and using my savings to pay off my loans and maxed out credit cards. She finally got a job after graduating some bullshit arts school, and is a supervisor at a shoe store. I caught her slipping when I borrowed her phone (mines disconnected now) and saw flirtatious texts she was sending out to her boss and her district manager. They are both rejecting her, but this bitch wont leave them alone. After having a convo with her about it, she promised to stop and will “better” our relationship.
That was 2 weeks ago. She went out to a company party tonight, got drunk, and after I pick her up – guess what I find in her phone? She was going there excited just because her “boss” was gonna be there and she wanted to meet his gf thats “keeping her away from him”. All this after lying to my face. The aspect thats getting her off is the fact that he is taken and wont give her a time of day.
I dont know what I feel worse about: Being lied to my face after I sacrificed everything? OR Dating a girl thats a pathetic loser who cant even get some spineless sap who’s too pussy whipped over his gf.
I’m glad I found this site. I am moving out at the end of this month. I dont know how im gonna deal with this bitch in the meantime considering we sleep in the same room. In favor I ask you: Please give me some advice to get me back in the handsome life of swing. I need to get my life back on track and get the fuck out of this delusional psychological state that I was so blindly chained to…
I must say this is well written article by the author. I have had pretty much the same experience with women. I just don’t understand women and that’s why I prefer being single and a player rather than a committed lover/boyfriend/husband.
Lol..true..atleast some1 understands how things work in the real world although i never knew about some of the pointed facts.
Pignipple, bro keep us updated. I am sad to see relationships do this but I think this is because may be the man isn’t the one she thought she fell in love with
women like to change men in relationships, if you change, you are not what she chose in the first place.
Okay, well, I’m a feminist, but I read what you had to say with an open mind. You’re pretty honest about your sexism, so I appreciate that. I have met men with traditional values I consider sexist, but I don’t get mad at them because they make sense in their world.
However, when I read what you are saying, I see these themes 1) women are less than men (and you) 2) but for some reason, you think sleeping with a lot of them is good (200) 3) you devote a lot of energy to seducing them, telling them affirmations, manipulating them, etc. which seems kind of weird for someone who thinks they are less than you.
I’m not that pretty, and I’m kind of a tomboy, but I have no trouble finding guys to date who actually think like I do – want a partner, we’re equals, etc. They say nice things to me and are honest about it. So I’m having a lot of success with men by being myself, being honest, etc. and you are having a lot of success with women by doing this other thing you describe above.
Men get mad when women cheat on them. Women get mad about men cheating on them. I do not have monogamous relationships for that reason; I just state up front that I have multiple partners, and there is no “cheating” – I am honest if I have another partner and tell the other person. Therefore, my relationships have gone well, and have only ended when me and the other person are ready to end it for our own reasons. I’d recommend this relationship structure to anyone who is having problems with jealousy, or who has been the victim of infidelity.
So you’re a man and I’m a woman. And we are just struggling to have relationships in a world that doesn’t make sense. Aren’t we actually, really, more alike than we are different? Aren’t men more like women than not?
Sorry for my broke English. Im from Spain.
Dethwench: You’re a fucking woman and you’ll never understand a shit of what those guys are talking about because, as I said, YOu ARE A WOMAN.
We’re not equal as you say. We have the same “Human value”, but you have phisiological and bio-shit-ical things that make women and men work DIFFERENT. And that’s all.
I (trully) loved women and I still do, but i won’t hesitate to play any of these techniques on them because “seduction and love, are games”, and i’d rather to be in the winners side, as everybody else.
Terrible advice. No decent man would be up for this. You might have a life where you get to indulge your craving for dopamine rushes based on variety, but you will suffer emotionally due to knowing there is no genuine love and commitment.
I love being asexual and laughing at stupid human relationships other than friends. They lie a lot less.
Men lie, and women lie, but only men seen to have a constant need to rationalize their behavior on the internet.
Thank you for posting this. Reading the main post breaks my heart, as does many other such posts in the “seduction community”. Your comment gives me hope that there are other people out there who, like me, strive to live decently and not succumb to this kind of cynicism.
I understand that women are attracted to certain traits more than others, this is natural. And that’s why I think why we should all work to be the best, most desirable men we can if we want to have great relationships. However, just because this poster is able to consistently bed women who are often disloyal doesn’t mean he’s bedding every woman out there, and that every woman is of low character. It just means that that’s the kind of women that *he* attracts.
I know a lot of women (including my cousins) who are “boyfriend girls”. They generally date one guy for a long period of time. From ages 18-22, they’ve had maybe 1-3 boyfriends in their lives. They may have had some one-off relationships with some guys at some point (I don’t know any specifics or anything), but they’re not disloyal cheaters. They’re sweethearts. And I think that’s because they come from good families, went to good schools, and have generally been brought up decently.
So to any other guy out there who’s disheartened by the above blog post, realize that this is just one person’s lens on the world, and that it’s not absolute truth. It’s important to be a good judge of character when you’re meeting women. There are a lot of women who are immature, will cheat, are indecent, and whatnot, but there are also quality girls out there. Don’t aim for mass numbers of immature girls like this guy, learn to be a good judge of character and attract quality women.
Cheers.
Also, the whole post reminds me of this brotip:
“Bro, if she cheated with you, she’ll cheat on you.”
@will – bro your absolutely right i do agree on the opinions you have here and this actually works and will help all the guys out there to get laid, we have the same principles WILL but i have my own ways to get under womens pants and thats what im great at, but here’s the catch dont try to understand women cause we MEN are not that great with that thing, thats where manipulation and seductions comes in.
@dethwench – if you are saying that men and women are alike its ridiculously impossible, try to improve your PERCEPTION and not the part of understanding us. there is no such thing as BALANCE in this world and i am not saying that we MEN are the ultimate being its just that its in our NATURE. ^_^
I’m a guy, and I think this guy is just jaded. Yes, feminism has ruined a great proportion of women, making them into dishonorable, selfish sluts, but there are still good women out there, and I think women are also more moral than men. Look up the wallet test, and guess what, women are a lot more likely than men, regardless of race, to look for the rightful owner. And as for number of partners, and the writer’s “harem” theory, it’s all bunk. An actual statistic is that 29% of american men have 15+ partners in their lives, while only 9% of american women report having 15+ partners. Women might have sex more frequently, but that’s a function of being more likely in an LTR. Get your facts right, and quit projecting your perverse views on society.
actually being honest or dishonest has nothing to with how sexually active a woman, or a man is…sorry lol…your projecting
As far as the harem theory goes…I presently have 3 girlfriends and Im honest with them about that…they all know of each other. I think he`s right.
This reeks of egomania. If it works for you, it is what it is. But assuming it applies to every 3.some billion women in the world? Ridiculous. Have some perspective, for your own sake. Interesting read though.
Nicely Written.
I myself have to agree, as women have screwed me over bigtime in my life, as of recent more screwed over than you can imagine and it has left me in a very dark place, I am not going into detail as the story would suprise you (or not) that a woman could do this to me. Since I have been doing research and found all the answers I need, One thing I have learnt is this stuff works, I thank you Will for laying it down as blantant as possible.
@Phil. Your talking crap man, have my life and you would soon see what your theory of “good women” can accomplish. My guess is your in your mid twenties and single? Single for a long time at a guess, searching for “the one” and desperate for a lay but not willing to lay down your morals that trap you in a bubble? and I would guess you were raised by women who told you how to be to get a girl. Guess what man. ITS BULLSHIT, what women say they want is different to what attracts them.
Be the way a woman tells you and you will be her best friend forever. While your best mate jacks off over her supple breasts. Get a grip man and you wont be single for long.
Dont believe, Dethwench is a female player apparentely, give her your number, take her out and I bet you still dont get laid. I bet she says this, “awwww your so sweet, I like you we could be good friends. hey as your so sweet, you got any decent mates you can hook me up with?”
Thanks Will. Your a vision to the pussies. (pun intended).
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This sounds like an awful lot of work. You know what? I think I’ll just stick to traveling around the world and fucking bitches for pennies on the dollar (unlike American women). No drama, no phony acting, no walking on eggshells.
Women annoy the fucking SHIT out of me.
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You know what?
I read this text a few months ago, and it has really helped me!
I am maybe a 7/10 on a good day, but just a few weeks after reading this text and the comment by Will, I had a threesome.
And I’ve only had sex a few times in my life, yet it went smooth as hell!
And everytime I remember it, I remind myself that even if one or two of the billions of people on this planet doesn’t like me, I love myself, and I mean it. For the first time in many years, I actually have some self-esteem and love for myself!
Thank you for improving my life by tenfolds!
I didn’t read it all because it reminded me too much of myself.
I’m over 40 now and I stopped counting a long time ago and never remember names so who really cares.
Life is short! So just live a little before your on the next journey.
One thing I’ve learned is life will evolve and you find your self morphing into images like Gumby.
Just got to home in and keep yourself on a path you want to be on.
And it’s just like Bruce Lee says “It’s like a finger pointing away to the moon. Don’t concentrate on the finger, or you will miss all the heavenly glory”
What does it all mean? Guess it’s different for everybody and that’s just the way it is!!!
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I love this article, would love to hear more insight from you on this topic!
Thats what you get when you build a relationship upon lust. Its cause you dont know any better and you keep trying to ‘fit in’ with this herd mindset
While everybody has right to do what he/her think….doing..
WHEN ARE YOU MEN GOING TO REALIZE WOMEN LOVE THE SEX JUST AS MUCH?? stop patting yourselves on the back for getting inside a vagina.
I knew for my whole life that there is something wrong with womens way of thinking but
it makes me puke to even think accepting your behavior.If your an honest and genuine person then
everybody and everything fucks your life, not only women, you get used to it.For me the most important thing is to have clear conscience and i must respect myself.I dont change as a person only because many woman play dirty tricks on me.In my eyes your just as nobody as are majority of women and men.I dont say that your article is untrue, but i say i dont enjoy winning women that way.Poor you, you can get bodys your way but never will you get a really great womens mind.